In Reply to: I think that people who say posted by chickchili on Tuesday, 1. May 2007 at 08:28 Bali Time:
I have lost both my parents and our best friends lost their daughter....I refuse to disclose such personal details on this forum, sorry aqua.
However whilst I can't always see a reason,I can help myself by my beliefs and If I can see fate and maybe reasons why they had to happen then I can deal with it better.
Grief is an awful soul destroying thing and loosing someone close is the most awful pain but this is not just about what you and Aqua feel, this is about how people whom have lost someone chooses to deal with it and if believeing in fate is the answer then so be it.
Have iether of you lost immediate family?
I am not a 17 year old I am 44 years old and if I choose to think of fate being a reason in my life why things had to happen then so be it. It doesn't take away the hurt, it doesn't make it fair but it may just help you to move forward and deal with things.
As always each to their own, no wrong, no right.