In Reply to: I wasn't going to say anymore however posted by Tuberose on Tuesday, 1. May 2007 at 08:59 Bali Time:
saying Tuberose. You probably read my post where I described my husband's accident - it is not the same terrible grief (though of course it will be one day - loss comes to us all - I am very aware of that) but as I said, it rips away the belief of 'it can't happen to me.'
You have every right to believe in the workings of fate in your life. I don't think we have the right to believe in that for others - if you see what I mean? That is, I believe that the bombers are responsible for the people who died in the Bali bombings, not fate.
The Jews have a great saying I think, which is a little bit relevant. They say you have every right to forgive a wrong done to you but no right to forgive a wrong done to someone else.
Thanks for your post.