In Reply to: Memorial to girlfriend posted by megs on Tuesday, 3. May 2011 at 15:30 Bali Time:
Is that they do not do anything. Following the cremation they take the persons soul back to the family temple and their belief is they remain with them forever.
I was given this information by friends when we were asking if there was a ceremony that we could do for my husbands anniversary of his death. We put his ashes in the water in Bali the previous year and had the appropriate offerings etc.
So we took a boat to where his ashes had been dispersed and the area where we had lodged the urn in a reef and had a glass of champagne and all poured some into the water for him.
I have heard of other people who go to the waters edge and put some frangipanis in the water.