In Reply to: an incident in paradise posted by tempe on Sunday, 15. February 2009 at 11:28 Bali Time:
I live in Bali now and never have any problems like this, however my first visit to Bali was different, it was in the early 90's and I had my (private area down below) grabbed many times at many clubs, the old Bounty, Sari Club, Paddy's etc. I was only young and it scared me, a lot, I was traveling with my boyfriend and he ended up in a fight with 6 Balinese (may have been Javanese, back then I had no idea of where they were from) guys at the Bounty on NYE, he woke with a sore head and a black eye, I woke not wanting to be in Bali.
I to this day have never worked out why they were doing this, however I was not the only one, many girls were having it happen to them. They would literally walk up to you, grab you there and then walk off as though they had a right and had done nothing wrong.
This is the first time I have heard this in over 15 years.