In Reply to: Ketut posted by anada on Tuesday, 11. December 2007 at 14:23 Bali Time:
for an extra $60.00. for 50 odd guests on your sisters wedding night!
You could have got all the guests to donate $1.00. each and you put in the $10.00. to cover the balance. Not much of a sacrifice for the happiness of your sister on her special day.
Then like anada said, take the matter up with Ketut at a more appropriate time without the audience.
How many weddings have you been to in Australia when bands are playing and the guests chuck in $50.00. or even $100.00. to keep the band going late at night. You could have avoided the situation.
Can understand that you made a deal, but really, if it was me personally I would have paid the $60.00. for my sister and said ok Ketut now you have earned a bonus here, so make it a memorable night for all!