it took me almost a year to convince my partner to marry and even longer still to persuade him to doing it in Bali. since my first visit in 1991 i have dreamed of being married in Bali, it just seems like my idea of perfect romance in a place i love! but he has never been and as we became engaged after the first bombings he was apprehensive. in the past couple of months since we have been organising our happy day he has really come around to the idea. he was so excited and we had fifty two of our closest family and friends joining us.
he thinks we should can the whole thing now. he says it is not just our lives we need to take into account.
i am very sad. i have been crying all morning.