In Reply to: Wedding posted by Bali_girl on Sunday, 2. October 2005 at 19:05 Bali Time:
I think the main difference here is jojomelle's husband to be was not in favour of going.
Bali_girl - if your hubby to be is on the same way of thinking that you are, have the two ceremonies. Or even the ceremony in Bali and a "party" at home.
Just make sure that you are both in agreement whatever you decide.