I am a middle aged california woman who has to go to singapore on business this fall. While there I wanted to see something new so I decided Bali. I am not doing budget travel but not Aman resorts either. I love islands and scenery and beaches and culture and am well traveled. I've been reading the forum and many of the message dismay me because they are so negative. Should I change my mind and not go? I was looking forward to it. I'd appreciate honest comments.