In Reply to: Or she might have a fond memory? posted by He who knows on Thursday, 5. August 1999 at 20:14 Bali Time:
Your whole perspective ignores the Balinese culture. It is very frowned on for women to have casual relationships in Bali with any man, particularly with foreigners. What you might consider a "moment in time" can affect a woman's standing in her community for her entire life. I agree it is up to the women to make their own decisions, but it is up to western men to be very honest and up front with them, and not lead nice women on. So maybe it is not "such an issue" for you, but it certainly can be for a Balinese woman.