In Reply to: Looking for Nice Women posted by Necros on Monday, 8. July 2013 at 18:41 Bali Time:
Very simply the 'nice women' dont go to bars - indonesian women i mean. Just accept that there are many nice women in Bali but they will all want money. They dont hang out with a Bule and take the nasty comments etc from other indonesians simply because they think you are the best looking hunk they have ever been with. Its all about the money and you cant blame them. Its business and hope for them. Hope that you will be their meal ticket. Its not unfounded as many a man has found out after the bank account has dwindled and her 'love for you' has dwindled as fast. Ha.
If you are spending your holiday with local 'ladies' all good, -expect to pay money and just enjoy the time with them.
Many male 'knockers' here look at guys like you with envy wishing they could do the same and be with a young pretty indonesian babe instead of who they themselves wake up to day after day. Just have fun, you are on holiday, if they look sexy and go to bars and nightclubs like you they are there for the money, accept it as that. You need to spend a lot longer than an 8 week holiday to find what you are looking for. While you are mulling this why not read a book by Stephen Leather called Private Dance - download for free - might keep you in perspective.