We have been invited to the tooth filing ceremony for our sponsor girl, and others, in the Amed area. What do we take for a gift, and how much should we spend?!! They are expecting 400 people... I know the [very poor] villagers usually share out a bag of rice, is that the most appropriate thing? Fresh fruit and veg from the market on the way?? We'll get our driver/friend to do the shopping, and will take a few special goodies for the immediate family also.