In Reply to: How rude posted by JAMJAM on Monday, 24. October 2011 at 12:36 Bali Time:
Are you honestly sure that the Balinese love your gifts? Maybe they are just polite but really wondering what to do with well worn and oversized clothes. Why not buy new clothes that fit the recipients? Your old things you can give to charity at home or throw in the garbage bin. Bali should not become a dump where we throw our unwanted surplus aka garbage.
Why not become a blood donour? The recipient may not dance or sing in front of you but the gift may be the difference between life and death.
Javanese and Balinese are Indonesians and equals. Are you telling us that you would not give to a person in need if he/she is from Java? Is that the sad thinking you want your son to follow?