In Reply to: marriage and circumcision posted by Mr_Ben on Monday, 24. October 2011 at 01:34 Bali Time:
Isnt marriage about accepting each other for who they are? Maybe she should accept you for who you are religion, skin n all and , just as you accept her for what she is and her religion. I would seem to think if someone loves you enough that just would not matter. Getting cut is just too extreme in my opinion. You also mentioned this stops everything in her mind. Does that mean she wont accept you if you dont do this? Does this meana her religion means more to her than you?
Just my opinion, of course nobody can really comprehend your situation unless they have been in the same.
Goodluck with your decision and marriage.