In Reply to: Winning over a Bali Hater posted by Pialucy on Sunday, 7. August 2011 at 11:54 Bali Time:
Then think about how he may enjoy an aspect of that activity in Bali. For example if he is an outdoors type, focus on the many outdoors activities, but look for one that are different to what he can do at home. If he loves socialising, then find opportunities to mix. But avoid the things that may drive hime crazy - traffic, pushy sellers etc.
A gentle intro to Bali was what I offered to my friend who was doubtful. I booked a nice restaurant for the first night, then got out of Kuta until he acclimatised to the place, by going to Ubud, Lovina etc. Then back to Legian for him to shop and enjoy the things that part of the island can offer.
Finally just let the place and the people work their magic...