We will be going to Bali in Sept with a few couples. A good friend of mine is celebrating her 40th while we are there and I wanted to get her a birthday cake in the shape of a penis. I know it sounds tacky but its a bit of an ongoing joke between girls. My Q is: is there a shop who would make it or would I be better off taking some icing sugar and pink food colouring with me, buying a plain cake there and doing my thing? and would it be really offensive to take this to a restaurant or better to blow the candles out in the privacy of our hotel room? Im guessing the latter. Thanks for any comments (please no flamers and keep it clean ;)