In Reply to: thunder posted by sammybali on Wednesday, 1. April 2009 at 08:41 Bali Time:
over the years Ive watched many holiday romance start with the aus girls and bali boys my neice went through a painful experience so did my friend who ended up heartbroken.Who do we blame?noone, its unfortunately a part of life learning experience it happens in any country but those bali boy bands can be very attractive hot nights,great looks,sexy voices and your gone!Whos to say this guy in the band isnt looking for new girlfriend?Is he married yet?then theres the ones at the airport waving goodbye to broken hearted girls leaving and then waiting for next plane to arrive to check out new girls.I get angry at my adopted bali son whos now 22 for the girls he seems to lead on from different countries but he says mum they all have good time and surely these girls must know the situation of bali boys one long party and meeting new girls everyday.But then some do fall in love it dosnt always work out though life here is very different for them if they come to aus my girlfriends who live in bali and here are married to balinese some doing really some struggling but thats life!Noone should point fingers here or try to intervene Im sure the girl whos going back will find out for herself she dosnt need help as for the girlfriend in aus maybe now her eyes will be more open when she goes back for 6 months.Word of advise DONT send money!!!!