In Reply to: Well I define need as whatever it is posted by willow on Tuesday, 20. May 2008 at 14:25 Bali Time:
the children's home I support are really happy for the kids to get the very occasional treat - so they are the management and they assess that the kids need that little bit of joy in their life.
So there you go. We are in agreement - a little bit of what makes them happy goes a long way.