In Reply to: Bit hesitant to add to this, but... posted by shay on Thursday, 17. January 2008 at 18:09 Bali Time:
The fashion of today I see young woman walking around with midrift showing and rolls of fat showing everywhere. I do not take offence to it that is there right to wear what they want. Does it look nice - to me NO. I have always been big and wear clothes accordingly but todays youths can do what they feel comfortable in.
For many many years I would not wear sleveless tops but now I do as I want to feel comfortable. In this, I do not feel uncomfortable being big. Hey that's me.
It is all about self confidence.
Indonesians do not usually rate people on size, looks, beauty but on what is in their heart. There are a few who will make comments but they have hung around with tourists too much.