In Reply to: Thank you! posted by Nomave on Sunday, 17. June 2007 at 10:05 Bali Time:
Would love to write a real love story for you but can only go back to over 20years ago when I used to watch the bali guys having romances made in heaven with aussie girls leave them crying good bye at airport and then wait for next flight to come in.I have also friends on this forum who have been in same position and have been hurt badly too!(not sure whether they will speak up or not)I have seen many balinese leave their wives and children to marry aussie girls for better lives.I have friends married to balinese that are extremely happy too!But somehow meeting in a nightclub should ring some bells firstly where does he get money to visit nightclubs?Does he have a bike,a good accomodation,nice clothes a good watch sounds silly but you have to ask where things are coming from because balinese wages are low, I know my balinese friends who occassionally go to nightclubs cant do it often because of the prices.Next time you visit tell him you are leaving earlier than you plan and maybe you can see if he turns up at this nightclub soon after with someone else?Its a harsh reality that they see aussie girls there way out of a very hard life.Went to a party recently in newcastle with many mixed balinese married people some very happy some not its the same gamble every country only its so difficult to know whether you are his ticket out of a life he wannts to change, like everyone has advised BE CAREFUL emotionally and physically and time will tell if true love has happened in bali - DO NOT LEND,SEND,or BUY his love goodluck!!!!