How funny I just searched the forum to see what I had been writing over the years to reflect I guess, and a couple of my first posts ( different user name, went to bali came back to post and couldn't remember my password!! relaxation will do that to you.) were asking advice about a Balinese guy I had just met and how could he come to Australia and were there any success stories out there...hehehe
Well to update you 3 years later he is living and working in Perth we will be married in May in Bali and I'm pregnant with our first child !!
So thanks for the advice and support..... to the other lot who thought he was just using me for my money and the rest of it I guess there not all like that so don't be so quick to judge, I'll be on maternity leave for 3 months in September and I'll be using him for his money hahahahahaha just joking
thanks