In Reply to: just cancelled trip posted by nyonya on Wednesday, 6. September 2006 at 02:27 Bali Time:
What do you say to someone whos lost someone dear?Only that everyone who reads your post will be touched and saddened and will join you in your saddest moments because we may all have had times where our hearts have been broken too!!!I lost a loveone many years ago and my heart still grieves but you also can remember wonderful times of that persons life and know that they are still with you no matter where you are!Sometimes this forum can be frustrating boring,or annoying with some of the dribble that is written but sometimes its a way of communicating and recieving messages from total strangers who really do sympathise and care how YOU are feeling!everyone thats posted is thinking of you ,me too I know you love bali we are connected by that fact and now we are connected by your saddness so please know that all of us on the forum will think of you and hope you will return to bali quickly where more friends will be waiting to support you and you will remember the great times you had with your husband, sit on the beach at sunset you will see his face in the horizon, go to the mountains look out over the land you will see him there go to a little temple with a balinese friend and pray in your own way and you will feel him with you the balinese are very spiritual and you will never be far from him - you will know how much people really do care for you and what you are going through - take one day at a time!!!