In Reply to: The New House & Going Home. posted by Bob_Melb on Saturday, 28. January 2006 at 02:25 Bali Time:
turned out a dream! You're right, though, I think the majority of work is done with your family & now it has to be left up to them. From here, help with food, etc would be appropriate but beyond that, ???? I know what you mean - you don't want to help your family to change too much from their origins/culture or to be too different to their society/village/friends. I think it gets to the stage where it's time to maybe move on & help someone else to help themselves, or to gain your family's assistance in doing so, huh? It's a hard call, isn't it? But, you have done such wonderful work and just so much for people who really needed someone's help! Great work, Bob! Cheers, Sue.