In Reply to: advice and opinions wanted posted by ella_oz on Friday, 27. January 2006 at 17:25 Bali Time:
that you describe.
Many people young and old are seduced by the laid back lifestyle which beckons us all there. I refer to it as 'bali fever' and have met a lot of people in 20 odd years of travelling to bali, that have fallen under the spell.
Being 21 is a difficult age especially if she is having a tough time at uni and feeling disillusioned.
If she is a sensible young woman then you know her best and ultimately as you say, you cant really stop her.. Only lack of finances would do that.
An extremely personal predicament...i think the answer is in your hands and not those of stranger. cheers