In Reply to: what they posted by annette on Wednesday, 21. December 2005 at 21:08 Bali Time:
If one person in a party is very scared it's going to be an unconfortable holiday isn't it. Many people do feel more relaxed in their hotel after dark.
The reality of what may or may not happen is one thing but one person's perception of how great a danger is or is not is quite another thing.
My understanding of the kidnapping thing is that high profile people are the target therefore I don't feel fearful or threatened. There again that's my perception. Somebody else may feel differently and there comfort zone will be different. That's ok. Come to think of it I can't afford to eat in the Hotel every night anyway!!