In Reply to: We have to decide posted by gwmw on Monday, 3. October 2005 at 17:36 Bali Time:
Unfortunately we can't. Although I respect your concerns for worrying your family, you really need to make the decision without thinking of them. Once you have decided yes to go or to stay, then you just let them know. If you decide to go, be prepared for people to tell you you are wrong. If you decide to stay, there could be people damning you for that too. So you need to make your own minds up quietly first. Would it be easier if you moved to a different area? In any case, give yourselves a couple of days and then make a decision that you are happy to stick with and be at peace with it.