Finally made the decision, and hubby is convinced! Thanks Bob Bali, you put his mind at rest! Will go and start packing now, admittedly a lot of the excitment has now gone, we are both bali virgins, but stuffed if I'm letting those bastards dictate my life.
Thankyou to everyone for your advise and best wishes particularly those of you chatting to me at 2am, and Di for your lovely emails, i've only had and 1hour and a half of very broken sleep, so it's off for a nap and then to finish packing
My prayers are with everyone effected, and i hope the toll hasn't risen when i wake up.
love Trace