My dearest mum passed away recently so my darling husband is going to take me away to bali without the kids. My 10th time in June/July 2005 for 3 weeks with hubby 9th time and kids 7th time. This will be a totally different holiday, I hope I don't sit down and worry about not having my kids there with us as this is our first time we have totally left our kids (I know I will). I know my mum will be with me in spirit in bali as she had a lot of trips there too!