In Reply to: Appropriate gift for baby. posted by Hillary on Monday, 18. April 2005 at 16:04 Bali Time:
and said we are coming and what would you like for the baby, their reply was a pram.
I have since had friends and given them money in a card and not asked(only because i couldn't make contact with them prior to leaving AUS) I have seen many posts over the years on BTF saying money is the nbest as it can help them with their many religious ceremonies. I guess in your case it is whether they have all the indo ceremonies. I always like to give a double present something for a keep sake and something useful.
It is hard and wil ltake you lots of thoughts about what is good, what is right, what is needed. I hope sharing my experiences has helped you ;-)