In Reply to: revisited posted by Angi on Sunday, 20. February 2005 at 07:56 Bali Time:
Can't even imagine how you must be feeling. I think fragile would be the bigggest understatement.
We went to Bali after Dad died (we cancelled and rebooked later when Mum was able to be left) I cried and cried every night, imagined him in all his favourite Bali haunts (his ashes had already been spread from his old boat in Geraldton)
It was so traumatic and I don't know if it was a good thing to do..too much time to think, too new at the time, too close to where he'd become sick and thinking of him never returning to the place he loved best. Also time to think of my own grief as I wasn't supporting Mum then.
We all deal with loss in our own way, I am sure you will know when the time is right to return.
Best wishes
Sue;~)