In Reply to: Don't Be Angry --- You Are The Exception posted by MisterSteve on Thursday, 29. July 2004 at 06:11 Bali Time:
I just find it silly & ridiculous that girls get involved with a guy on a 10 day-2 week holiday & think they are in love. But when they send money & 9 times outta 10 the guys DON'T ask they just get, but don't stay at home waiting for this lady whom promises to be back in a few months, go out & meet another they get called Jogolo's....?
If the women didn't thrust money at then then there would not be a problem?
They should not be called Jigolo's unless they ask for money for sex?
Most treat these ladies with courtesy, respect etc, but don't plan their future with them??
I think the ladies need to think about what they think they are getting involved in? If they hooked up with a tourist in bali & paid for dinner & drinks & then they went their seperate ways would they be called Jigolo's?
This is just my point... I think people need to be responsible for their own actions & get to know these guys better, as some of them have been so in love & burnt badly.., After this happening on numerous occasions they don't fall anymore but be kind & get a nice sleep, company a few beers, some decent meals etc... then wave goodbye at the airport...