Posted by P.D. on Thursday, 29. October 1998 at 00:44 Bali Time:
In Reply to: Just returned from Bali posted by Rebe on Wednesday, 28. October 1998 at 10:18 Bali Time:
Many of these men have learned from experience that the answer is often yes. If you really mean no, learn to say it in a polite but very firm manner and you won't have a problem. Friendliness can be confused with willingness but it really is possible to keep the record straight.