Posted by Anonymous?? on Monday, 19. October 1998 at 19:39 Bali Time:
In Reply to: One important thing posted by Tina on Sunday, 18. October 1998 at 01:43 Bali Time:
Dear Tina,
As I already stated in an earlier posting: much more things have happened besides the things I stated before so I reckon it's not for other people to be overjudgemental. Especially for people who've never been to Bali because Bali isn't just another third world country: it's one of a kind.
Next to that: the relationship isn't over: it's just started as my girl and me agreed on.
As I stated before as well: it didn't feel right to emphasize on a relationship while I was still negotiating with the owner about the house. After having negotiated I repeatedly stated to my girl that I'd hate it if she was to like me only because of me solving her problem.
This statement I repeated after "things finally had been taken care of" and that if she only wanted to be friends I'd be disappointed but that I couldn't force her into anything and friendship it would be. Nevertheless she specifically stated she did love me and not just because I had bought her family the house...
It was only after leaving paradise that I started to wonder about the uniqueness and absurdness(after all, have you ever heard of someone who's been in my kind of situation?) of my adventure and wanted to get some feed back from Bali minded people and not just fellow Europeans who've never been to Bali.
Anyway, thanks for reading my postings and taking the effort of giving your feed back.
Gede Anonymous??