Posted by Dorothy Dix on Sunday, 18. October 1998 at 22:14 Bali Time:
In Reply to: What I'd like to mention as well... posted by Anonymous?? on Saturday, 17. October 1998 at 19:02 Bali Time:
Sounds like your relationship with this lady happens mostly
in your fantasies as you stated that you two corresponded as
friends, "nothing more nothing less" this is reinforeced by the fact
that you also stated that you did not get to see much of this
lady as she worked a lot. (That's not unusual in Bali).
What you didn't say in your postings was how widly in love she
was with you, so tread carefully my friend. I can hear in no
uncertain terms of your love for her, but when you mentioned
buying the house you said that she expressed a freedom to love
whom she chose. Didn't read anything on how much she loved you.
As far as buying the house goes - I'd put my money on her being
genuine. You chose to send money for medicine and to buy the
house. Your decision. I'd just like to hear a lot more sentiment
coming from her for you!
Take care of of that kind and loving heart of yours my friend.
Maybe the sooner you can get back the sooner you will know how
she truely feels for you. The problem is she may now feel the same about you as she did the former house owner....obligated.